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Hail Full of Grace

Motherhood is not only a gift from God, but also an invitation to participate with Him in the creative act.  God, who created us from dust, invites a mother in a special way to enter into the mystery of creation, to feel the first stirrings of new life, to nurture this unique and unrepeatable person within her womb, and bring this life into the world through her own sacrifice of pain.  It is through pain that women give life, which is an echo of the sacrifice of pain that Jesus endured to give us eternal life.  It is through the cooperation of one very special woman that Jesus came into the world to give us that everlasting life. When the Angel Gabriel says “hail full of grace” to the Blessed Virgin, he reveals to us the Immaculate Conception of Mary, and also the perfection of Her Divine Son.  What was hidden in the Old Testament suddenly becomes clear. Adam and Eve prior to their fall from grace converse with God openly in the Garden of Eden.  They are pure and perfect and enjoy communion with Him.  After their fall from grace they are so ashamed of their sin they cannot bear to meet God face to face and try to hide from Him.  They realize too late that God is so holy that they cannot bear direct contact with Him any longer. When Moses receives the 10 commandments, the stone is reverenced because God Himself has touched it and it symbolizes the sacred covenant between God and their nation. The Israelites build an ark to house this holy covenant. The ark itself is such a holy vessel that any unholy person who touches the ark dies on the spot.  Just as Adam and Eve were created in a state of grace, so too were Mary and Jesus.  Unlike Adam and Eve who rejected God’s plan through their disobedience, Mary and Jesus embraced God’s plan through their obedience.  (Lk 1:38; Lk 22:42)  Christ became Man to perfectly fulfill what we could not and to establish a new covenant between God and all of humanity. Jesus is the new covenant.  How much more holy is His sacred body than stone?  Does it not follow that God would create a perfect vessel to house His Sacred Body?  Would He not adorn His chosen vessel with every grace and blessing as He prepares Her to be the dwelling place of His most beloved Son? Would not this perfect vessel be free from any defects?  Mary's perfection is a sign of God the Father's love for His Son. She magnifies His grace.  Mary is the ark of the new covenant, carrying Jesus to her cousin Elizabeth who is filled with the Holy Spirit and proclaims, “Blessed are you among women.” “Hail, full of grace” reveals Mary’s perfection as a creature of God and shows us the even greater perfection and glory of God.  Our Lord desires to share with all of us the gift He gave…

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The Two Become One

This past year Covid has really taken its toll on many marriages.  Without warning, couples were placed in 24/7 togetherness that usually comes only in post-retirement after many years of marriage and the wisdom of many years of experience.  This has left many young couples without the wisdom of experience to guide them.  Remembering first and foremost that Catholic marriage is a sacrament and that Christ is present in all Christian marriages is the first place to turn. Each of us is given a unique mission to serve God and He gives us helpers along the way.  Many of us fulfill our missions through the vocation of service in the Sacrament of Marriage.  Marriage is a unique gift for each couple because God intertwines our missions in such a way that serving each other also serves the community. In a Christian marriage, there are three people present: the couple and Christ.  It is no coincidence that the spiritual world can be better understood by reflecting on our natural world.  In architecture, the triangle is the strongest shape.  Modern buildings in earthquake country use this fact in designing stronger buildings.  Watch an office building going up and you will see the diagonals adding support to exterior walls.  In order to sit on a stool, it needs three legs.  When there are only two in a relationship, however, it is like a seesaw going up and down because that is what we humans do.  It is the third person in the relationship, Jesus, that builds the bonds between us and stabilizes us.  It is by God’s design that the three persons in a marriage mirror the relationship of the Blessed Trinity.  Inviting Jesus to be an active participant in our marriages strengthens us. We can’t go any further without discussing the elephant in the room: if we all were engaged to perfect fiancés, where did these imperfect spouses come from?  I know each of us has set about fulfilling the mission of our marriage: to improve our spouse.  How’s that working for you?  Probably as well as it worked for me, and no wonder – if I have extreme difficulty improving myself, how did I think changing my spouse was going to go?  As it turns out, we assumed the wrong information.  Our real mission is to get our spouse to Heaven.  To do this, we must be willing to sacrifice our own selfish desires in order to serve our marriage.  This may not sound appealing, but paradoxically, getting what I want may make me satisfied in the moment, but it does not lead to lasting happiness.  Focusing on self isolates us from our spouse and leads to the contest of wills that always leaves one person feeling trampled and resentful.  Real love is not a satisfied feeling; it is a decision to will the good of the other.  Love is an action word.  We find true happiness here because our sacrifice reflects the sacrifice of love Jesus performed on the cross.…

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